
Happy New Year!
After my last post, Callum got sick with a stomach virus that lasted about 6 days. He had a cough as well so in the night his coughing would trigger him to throw up. We missed one birthday party and a Christmas party at daycare be/c of it. So sad b/c at daycare it would have given me a chance to meet other parents and to see Callum singing in a group. It was a restless couple of days. I need to get a second duvet cover for times like this. Then Lucas got it 3 days after Callum. Lucas developed a fever one day and thinking he was better we joined friends at a very nice sailing club in Vancouver for a Christmas dinner. This turned out to be a disaster as one of us missed the ferry home, one family forgot and Lucas ended up throwing up just before we got our dinner. Another restless and stressful couple of days. Then it all was over by Christmas Day!
We had a very nice Christmas time. Callum was aware of Santa Claus and he ran upstairs in the morning to and said "Come see Mummy and Daddy". He noticed the empty milk glass and cookie crumbs and was convinced that Santa had been here. We spent almost all day opening presents as once Callum opened one thing he wanted to play with it immediately. He got Spencer the train engine from the Thomas the Tank Engine series and an airport and airplane from Santa. Lucas got a Fisher Price chatter phone and infant musical instruments from Santa. We went over to Auntie Bev and Uncle Ian's for Christmas dinner and stayed the night. It was a really nice visit. Callum fell out of his bed for the first time ever but bounced back and fell immediately back to sleep! Carlye and Tom were there with their dogs, Cody and Zoe. Callum enjoyed their company!
On the 30th we spent the night at the River Rock Casino in Richmond for our friend Jill's birthday. They got a baby sitter and we planned it so that our rooms were next door to each other so the the babysitter could have our baby monitor. The boys didn't make a peep while we were down at dinner.
We celebrated EST New Year's Eve at the Bennett's house with all the kids. We were home by 10 pm and realized that Callum's teddy was left in the hotel room. Colin called the hotel at 10:30 pm on new years eve and left a message while I read stories to Callum. When Callum realized that Teddy was missing once he got into bed he got very very upset. He wanted Teddy and was worried that someone else was playing with him. It was impossible to console him. Brought him back into the living room and theorized that if we let him watch Thomas he will just fall asleep watching. Just after turning Thomas on, the phone rang and this was housekeeping saying that they had teddy. I decided to go get him right away. So off I went at 11 pm on New Years Eve to a casino/hotel to get Teddy. It was crazy when I got there and took me a while to get up to Valet parking. I told them my story and they said no problem that they would keep my car here. I was home at 11:50 pm and Callum and Colin were fast asleep in Callum's bed. If Callum woke up in the night then his teddy would be there.
My company has their annual 'kickoff' in Jan. so my parents came out to look after Lucas while I was in Denver for 4 days. They had a great visit with the boys. They will be back for Lucas's 1st birthday upon their return from Hawaii.
Callum is the the youngest full time boy in at this daycare. All the other boys are much older than him some by almost 2 years. Needless to say the older boys aren't all that happy about Callum wanting to 'hang' with them. They have been calling him names, most are silly names that children use but one that hits hard is that they have called him 'a loser'. Breaks my heart. They care workers told me about this and the day it happened I tried to get Callum to talk about it but he wasn't interested. Then about a week later he told us one night at the dinner table so clearly that the older boys called him a loser. Brought tears to our eyes. How do you talk about this in a way that a 3 year old would understand. In the end, we suggested that he tell them that words like that hurt his feelings and make him sad and to walk away and find nice kids to play with. I find it interesting how Callum processes situations and that it takes time for him to come to terms with them. Then, he talks about it.
Lucas is 10 months now. He proficiently climbs and descends (turning and going down backwards) the stairs, he has started pointing and it able to walk holding onto his truck or cart. We had taken a video of Callum walking with his truck at about this age and they look so much alike! He is chatting a lot. About to move Lucas into a rear facing toddler car seat as the infant car seat is getting too small for him and it weighs a tonne when he is in it! Oh and finally, he has stopped drooling almost completely so 'good bye' to bibs! Yeah!
One more week before he starts daycare. I am sad about this but know that I probably couldn't be a full time Mum. I go back to work on Feb. 14th. The office has changed drastically since I left a year ago. I left with 6 in our office and now we have over 20 and have moved again!